As soon as I caught onto it, I was hooked on being happy! I then set out discovering what created and contributed to expanding joy and happiness in my life and doing my best to only choose that. And guess what, it made me happy and rich too! Money makes me so happy!
Has being always happy in life even ever been a reality to you? Or have the bumps, bruises, let downs and unhappiness of life been so the norm in society that you think its right to tolerate an unhappy life?
And so…enters in the choice! What choice can you make today that will make your life happier right away?
This is of course being only for people who choose to be happy, I know a lot of people enjoy being miserable and to those: What will it take to fully enjoy being unhappy to its fullest?
3 TIPS FOR CREATING A JOYFUL LIFE:
1. Stop making other peoples problems your problems.
How often do you try and handle other peoples unhappiness and upset? And do you even give up your own peace and ease for someone else?
We can’t help but be aware of other peoples stuff, its part of being an aware person. All my life I was aware of what was going on in other peoples heads, all of it unspoken. And I spent my whole life ‘trying’ to make them happy.
When I became older and wiser I realized they didn’t want to be happy.
The gift of happiness I was intending to give was being thrown into a black-hole never to be seen or heard from again. I gave so much of myself to make people happy without it ever being received, that that black-hole devoured even my own joy to the point that I wanted to die.
I indulged death as an option but my stepfather would not let me die so I turned it around and set out to stop making those that would not be happy happy, and most of all stop making sense out of why they would choose to be unhappy.
People choose to be unhappy just as they must choose to be happy. Just because you have had a terrible life doesn’t mean you can’t be happy. Joy is a choice, not a predicated reward you earn when you get it right.
2. Choose at least one thing per day that makes you joyful:
Now this one might be trickier as you are actually going to have to discover what creates joy for you. For some of you this may be easy and others of you it may feel like digging your self out of a deep dark pit with a butter knife.
But let me assure you the quest for joy is not a silly one only for people with the time or money rather the most honorable quest. For when you are happy the whole earth benefits.
Ask what contributes to the joy in your life, then choose that even if it is hard, even if you don’t have the time, even if you can’t afford it. Choosing is free and so is happiness.
3. Get ready to offend others and be rewarded by the universe:
Have any of you noticed that sometimes joy and happiness seems like a punishable offense by others? Have you ever had anyone be angry or guilt trip you for being happy? I have, and I have seen countless others also condemned for their joy.
Too bad for them because the universe rewards joy. The more joyful you are the more everything will just magically work out for you.
Does joy have expectations or is joy happy no matter what? What are you going to choose? Are you going to be unhappy because things don’t work out your way or are you going to be happy anyway?
Joy is free and totally non-circumstantial, meaning there is no reason for joy.
Has joy been enough of a priority in your life or do you prefer strife? Truth?!
Don’t look for people to support you in being happy or to share in your happiness, they may not be able to. But the universe will! Be happy and all will work well for you.
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